Your beliefs are created by your environment and experiences, but once you reach a certain point of emotional maturity you should evaluate them to see if they are pushing you back or pulling you forward. Check out the video below!
As a woman who has been disappeared on in the midst of relationships, I have a sore spot for men that leave without a warning. It is the deepest rejection that I had ever felt and I asked God to never allow that to happen again. I didn’t want to feel the pain of unworthiness … More Progression of Rejection
When you do what makes you happy, you are making a permanent decision based off of a temporary emotion because happiness is dictated by circumstance and expectation. Check out the video below for more!
Imagine that you’re sitting on the examination bed in a doctor’s office waiting to be healed. The novacane you’ve been using to numb the pain has subsided and now you’re feeling the full extent of everything that you have been covering up. The doctor enters the room to hand you a medical gown but you … More Healing Pain of Exposure
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing twice and expecting a different result. Living by that definition means that we should never do the same thing twice if we want to be considered sane. It insinuates that if you try something once and it doesn’t work, then you need to let bygones be … More The Fear of Insanity
The practice of sacrificing one thing to obtain something else is commonly regarded to as substitution. Substitutions are typically made when someone doesn’t like what they currently have. They trade what they currently have for something else that they are familiar with. This is done in hopes that the familiar thing will step into the … More Substitution of Familiarity
I’ve always been a free-thinker, not easily influenced by the opinions of others, but always open to hear the wisdom of those around me. I never noticed that it was rare until I started analyzing the affects of social media on my generation. Every decision that we make should not include the question, “What will … More Make Decisions for Yourself, Not Other People
“How do I know someone truly loves me?” That was the question a woman asked me. Usually, I would ask a bunch of questions to assess the situation before I responded but this time was different. This time I chose not to assess her situation myself so that I could allow her the opportunity to … More How Do I Know If Someone Loves Me?
A few days ago, I stayed up until 2:00 a.m. and only got 3, maybe 4 hours of sleep. When I woke up to begin my day, I was met with attacks that made me wish I could crawl back under my silk sheets and hide from the world. The whole day was full of … More A Restless Spirit
It was the legend Albert Einstein that said “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Why have many of us ignored his wisdom? Why do many of us dwell in a perpetual state of insanity when it comes to dating? We’ll do the same thing over and over … More Albert Einstein’s Dating Advice