“How do I know someone truly loves me?” That was the question a woman asked me. Usually, I would ask a bunch of questions to assess the situation before I responded but this time was different. This time I chose not to assess her situation myself so that I could allow her the opportunity to … Continue reading How Do I Know If Someone Loves Me?
It was the legend Albert Einstein that said “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Why have many of us ignored his wisdom? Why do many of us dwell in a perpetual state of insanity when it comes to dating? We’ll do the same thing over and over … Continue reading Albert Einstein’s Dating Advice
The voice of our heart is frequently and unintentionally louder than the voice of God in many of our lives. We will believe that God has spoken to us when it was really our heart’s disguise as His voice. We couldn’t quite tell because we only heard the voice that made the most noise and … Continue reading The Voices of Our Heart
A relationship is intended to be a mutually beneficial experience, but many of us (including me) have left relationships drained because we poured all that we had into the other person without reciprocation. In my single season, I’ve really learned how to effectively communicate my needs so that I will be able to get them met … Continue reading The Right Way to Communicate Your Needs
Every heartbreak leaves an internal wound on our bodies and many of us don’t take the proper time to heal because we either jump into another relationship hoping to be rescued from the pain or we just numb our pain until someone new comes along. There is exponential danger in doing that because a heart … Continue reading Open-Wounded Relationships
The reason why heartbreak hurts so bad is because you put God-expectations on mankind. The Bible says that God will never fail you, but nowhere does it say that “Mankind will never fail you.” Why? Because mankind will fail you. You expected them to not leave, you expected them to always love you, you expected … Continue reading The Answer to Why Heartbreak Hurts So Bad
Just because we don’t wear Mardi Gras masks every day, does not mean that we don’t cover our true faces when we walk out of our front door. Most masks that humans wear cannot be seen and cannot be touched, but they should be taken off. We’ve become so accustomed to putting on our mask … Continue reading Inadequate Intimacy